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Old 08-20-2008, 12:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
dolphingal1971
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Join Date: Jul 2008
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wheres the empathy?

well, I had a terrible weekend. I have been having pain in my lower left and right sides off and on for 3 months now. well, on friday it was very intense and as I was leaving work, I called AH and told him and started crying I was hurting so bad. well, he tells me to go home and go to bed. I did and at 8pm he calls to tell me, in drunken slurs, he's on his way home and that he's gonna stop and get something to eat. Didnt even ask if I wanted anything. I told him that and that I really could use something to eat. Well, when he got home, he griped about how much money he spent on 2 dinners and then started fussing. Then i told him he doesnt need to talk that way to me because I was in pain and he may have to take me to the ER. Well he says, "take your ownself," and went to bed. Well, saturday I was hurting so bad I proceeded to go to the urgent care clinic 30 miles away. He says, "i'm taking you". I said "why bother caring now, you didnt last night". Well, the doctor told me to stay all weekend in bed and go my dr. on monday morning. Well, he did not take care of me at ALL! Did not bring me my medicine, fix me anything to eat or drink, check on me in the bed or NOTHING! He says that leaving me alone to let me rest is his way of showing he cares. Also, that asking me "You still hurting" when I would hobble into the kitchen to get a glass of water to take my medicine is his idea of caring. WTF!!! and then I go to the dr. and she wants to send me for a cat scan. She thinks I have a fibroid with a cancerous growth on it. And since then, he has been a dog. Griping about cooking for himself and all.
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