Tena,
The word is refuah shleyma -- renual of body and spirit.
My mom and dad *loved* to dance, and continued to do so until my dad's passing. Mom was able to dance once more at my brother's wedding. She thanked her new daughter for that pleasure in her final letter to us.
Thank you...
Judith,
I, too, believe that our loved ones show us the way in life and in the death of their physical selves. And their memory continues to show the way.
Shalom!