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Originally Posted by Callie  I'm not trying to toot my own horn but there is NOBODY in his family who will stand up and fight for him. NOBODY. His very own dad who he loves and cherishes hasn't called for 1.5 weeks. I tell you if it were )MY( son I'd be fighting tooth and nail. AH's dad has his "own life' and can't be bothered. Foreign to me I guess. |
No one can fight this battle for him. No one. Just him. Maybe his dad is busy trying to live instead of die from his son's addiction? Have you read any of the posts from parents here who have detached? Do you honestly think we can't be bothered?
You can't save him Callie. You can offer support and compassion but you can't save him. It isn't your job, it's his:
http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...rty-lines.html (Language of Letting Go - May 13 - Property Lines)