| help with amends
I'm having trouble with my amends. I've already made some to people who I really felt I harmed or owed money to, but some I'm not so sure about. There's an old girlfriend from 20 years ago. I didn't treat her very well, but as far as college dating goes, it was nothing out of the ordinary. Or my old boss from years ago. Everyone thought he was a jerk. I'm supposed to call him up and say I'm sorry I thought you were a jerk? He probably wouldn't even remember me. I wonder if some of the people that ended up on my list really should be there. My sponsor says that I don't have to do any that I'm not willing to do. Since I've been sober (13 months) I've done everything thats been asked of me in treatment, with my sponsor and my homegroup, but this has been nagging me.
What do you think?
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