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Old 08-04-2008, 01:31 PM   #6 (permalink)
RufusACanal
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Originally Posted by odaat View Post
I'm not sure why I'm having an affair. Honestly, it wasn't intentional, I didn't start out thinking 'I want an affair', and neither did the other guy.
Today could be the beginning of a new life for you ODAAT or it could be the stepping off point for more pain and suffering. I will not beat you with morality, but you might want to look at your principles and values.

If you have to ask about who to be honesty to then you are not practicing enough honesty. Having affairs while married is a conscious choice, just like picking up the first drink. What do you want to do, live free or continue to lie to yourself and others?
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