Another thing that complicates everything that I should probably mention at some point, she has control of my money until i'm 35 (She had me pretty much declared disabled, I think the diagnosis is ******** and i'm just starting to try and fight it all), i'm kind of afraid of what she might do with it, she keeps making stupider and stupider decisions. So, thats another reason why i'm so anxious to get out, I want to regain control of my own money. I'm not sure whether that involves legal action or not, but its going to get messy either way i'm sure.