My Dead Friends
Hi Everyone....
On another thread I mentioned
I had lost 26 friends since I found recovery in '89.
Then I got to thinking ...so many of us
equate drunk driving to alcoholic deaths.
Others assume an alcoholic is jobless
friendless....a nomad living in parks.
My dead friends lived in D.C.
Drunk driving was not why they died.
None was a skid row drinker.
Norman in my bed...a heart attack
He took a legal pain med and had 5 beers.
John P......a suicide ..alone .Cocaine and Burbon
Bob...I found him dead in my apartment
when I came back from vacation.
He had been there 6 days and I did not
realize it was a person I loved.
I had to throw out my carpet and chair.
Wayne...who shared a home with me
I cleaned up his vomit and blood
as he bled to death on his way to ER.
Pat...I last saw him 2 hours before he died of
alcoholism. He was restrained in a hospital bed
raving and yellow.
Leo...I worked with him for 10 years.
He died on the restaurant floor
Convulsing and vomiting blood.
Joe...hit a bridge head on...drunk...in his PJ's..sucide
Princess....froze to death passed out in an alley
Richard ... shot himself in his bottle strewn car.
Charlie ..died waiting for a liver transplant
Stephen and Ann...liver cancer
Jeff and Ted...drunk...alone...found days after death in apartments
Not possible to pin point causes due to body decomposition.
A few had tried AA....2 died recovered
Sooo....while I do stress
"Don't Drink and Drive"
my personal list of who I mourn
has nothing to do with it.
With the hope that someone will save their own life
I share some of my dead friends with you.
Thank you for reading ...please find a
way to live without alcohol.
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