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Karen -
no. You won't have to do it forever.
When you get the wording right ...
you remember from the fifth step, right?
It dissolves.
Some aspects are gradual, like training...
but when you 'hit' the thing ...
you know it.
You probably won't even have made the amends yet, either.
Something just goes 'click' and ...
whatever you're afraid of losing ...
will become obviously un-stealable.
or un-losable.
THen you won't have to 'hoard' anything any more.
Selfishness doesn't *always* come form a fear of loss or deprivation...
but it *does* occur at the root often enough that it's worth a look.
When I've had a selfish realization ...
I usually see first thing
what I was afraid of losing.
And it's almost always something
I can't get from others anyhow.
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