Originally Posted by
Cupcakes 
Why ? I was very confuse about how in the world my defects or shortcomings
would be removed
My shortcomings were not
"removed" the way I thought they were going to be removed.
I can still be an impatient, selfish, arrogant SOB. The difference however was that I learned to
change my behaviour
I am still the same physiological person I was when I came into recovery but I am learning to make
healthier choices about the way I handle situations.
We
CAN choose to act with patience and tolerance when dealing with others and it gets better with practise.
Gee I hope this is not confusing
