Of course you can lay it out here!
That's why we ARE here!
And you put it out here to get the feedback, right?
So, don't be silly. You know the one thing you'll get from me is honesty.
Judith is right about that Bill of Rights that Done posted.
Have you read it? I hope you do. And print it out and bring it to your pdoc, especially if you think he'll minimize it. Show it to hubby too, if necessary.
But, do take care of yourself. Get the help you deserve.
Shalom!