Hey, fellow Md gal...
You sound just like me.
I had to break it off with the old b/f, gal. I was in a similar sitch to you (barely making it) and I just had to cut and run. He didn't want me going to meetings either, and I need to go. Plus, how can he be the boss of you when he isn't even pulling his own weight??? You can do bad all by yourself. I'm lonely since I broke up with mine, but I'm not going to go back.
My son has mental issues too (OCD and severe anxiety). It's hard, it really is.
My ex doesn't pay anything at all, we've been apart 15 years, and nothing. Deadbeat dad.
And I have the car thing going on too.
Maybe we're twins?
Luckily I do have a job, still. Thank God.
I don't know, but if you want, PM me with what county you are in.
We could at least talk on the phone, maybe go to a meeting together if you are near??
KJ
