[mars1789]

My boyfriend broke up with me last night. He was in rehab for 40 days to treat an alcohol and cocaine addiction, and came back about a month ago. He came back full of energy, decided to change his life for good, and he made a commitment to stop doing things that could jeopardize his recovery, like hanging with friends who also have a drug problem, going back to the rehab center every month, and to stop doing things about his job that would make him consume. His energy lasted for about 2 weeks, and he started to make excuses to not do what he had committed, so I told him I didn’t want that, and he promised me again he would do it, and the energy lasted another 2 weeks. Saturday night I saw him almost drinking alcohol, and told him he shouldn’t be doing that, and last night he said we should break up, that he didn’t want to hurt me anymore and that he was tired of having to justify himself to me, and everyone else, and that he wanted to be alone.

I write this here jus because I want to talk to someone who could understand, because I know that maybe this is the best for me.

I just want to know, if it’s normal for an addict to have those mood changes, to want something one day, and not the next. He seemed so interested until Saturday, so I’m a little confused.