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welcome to SR...
My RAH "attempted" to get clean many times before he really wanted to get clean and actively work a program. In the beginning, he would play the blame game... I would doubt myself, and ultimately nothing would change. The more I worked on myself, it became clear that the blame game was an obvious sign that he was NOT working a program...just blowing smoke about going to hide his use...
Eventually he did seek out recovery, for himself, and it was very different...actions speak much louder than words when it comes to living with addiction.
You mentioned that he has 27 days clean... If that is true, good for him...it takes alot of hard work and continuous work to keep moving forward. The one thing that concerns me is the blame that he is laying on you. I read in the other forum/post, that he has blamed you for making it a using environment for him. That seems like such BS to me...you needed those meds for a medical condition, that does not make it an open invitation for him to use them and keep you in pain when there wasnt enough...
He will either truly seek active recovery or he will not...
Either way, just the fact that you are here, is one big step in the right direction for you!
Keep reading and posting....
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