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Old 06-15-2008, 01:14 AM   #1 (permalink)
dolphy
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why do I see my qualifier as capable of no wrong?

I don't understand this and am searching for some insight.

I have always regarded my qualifier as capable of no wrong. I have been so adamant about adjusting my reality to fit this notion that when they first told me they were an alcoholic and going into recovery, I was honestly truly blind sighted and never saw it again. Later, when the same person told me they were now going into recovery for substance abuse, I felt blind sighted again. I was never able to see the effects of alcoholism or substance abuse until after the fact.

I am curious. What made me so willing to be blind? Has anyone else ever gone through something similar to this? Why do we do this?
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