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So sorry to hear you are dealing with this. This is the kind of stuff my ex pulled when I started getting healthy. He is using your "emotional affair" (I don't really believe in the concept that emotional needs can be met by only one person in our lives and anything else is "cheating" but that's another subject) as an excuse to act out. My ex accused me of cheating, hiding money, and anything else he could think of many times, screaming at me to "come clean". It's all a ruse to keep the focus off them. It only ended when he moved out and I STILL get calls from him where he tries to start this type of crap. I just remind him that what I do is no longer his business and that speaking to him is optional and hang up.
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