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Originally Posted by BillJ  First thing I did was clean out all the crap my ex had left lying around - her discarded clothing, my step-daughter's broken toys, all the constant reminders of what was gone from my life. Then I started making time after meetings to fellowship. Later, I moved into town, and got a house just blocks from the meeting hall, and made sure everyone knew where I lived. That way, they could drop by anytime, day or night, and keep me from isolating again. |
Dang, hearing some of my story again. Funny how that happens in recovery.
I got rid of bags of old photos, hundreds of cards, letters, and notes that said how much she loved me, how we'd grow old together, what a great father and husband I was. Might seem bitter but it helped me to slowly heal.
I bought a small home, just big enough for me and the kids but not so big that I'd be tied down to upkeep, landscaping, and cleaning. That freed up plenty of time for Fellowship and extra meetings. My first couple years sober I'd have AA'ers over for breakfast, lunch, BBQ's, etc. and still do on occasion.
It's a rare day now when I feel alone in recovery. Thank you again, God.