Old 05-30-2008, 04:00 AM
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bugsworth
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SS, First off, relationships between men and women have been a mystery since the dawn of time. No matter how hard you try you may never figure this guy out. You state he has been sober 15 years, that would indicate to me that his not wanting a committed relationship has nothing to do with his sobriety, it is just who he is. I don't feel any of this has to do with alcoholism so I wouldn't expect any step 4 work coming your way. I know you are hurt...breakups suck. Be kind to yourself...move forward with grace...don't concern yourself with what he is thinking, it serves no purpose.

Also, Don't allow yourself to be the booty call when his new GF is away, you are better than that. Remember some guys...alcoholic aside...are just dogs!
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