I would of just stopped calling a woman when I didn't want to be with them anymore. The honesty shows that he is using the tools AA has given him.
As I understand it the OP called him - not much honesty there. I guess he could have lied.....
But there's not much spirituality in evidence in calling the OP over for a dirty weekend either.
I wouldn't use this guy as a poster boy for AA
Just sayin'
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