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The key word you used was POTENTIAL – you saw potential there and a desire from him to want a “normal” life.
You fell in love with his potential, not who he really was. You desired him to want a normal life (what you perceive as normal) may not be what he perceives as normal. I’m sure to him he is living as normal a life as he knows how.
I think you are smart, wise and made a very good decision for yourself to not accept his thoughtless invitation.
Remember, when you fall in love with someone’s potential you are setting yourself up for hurt and pain. You need to be able to accept someone for exactly who they are, not who you think they can be, in order to have a healthy relationship.
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