Thanks ananda-
I really like what you said and totally agree with it. I must live and let live but then again go into that "jail"....I really needed to hear what you said...
I have totally forgot that this is a big drinking weekend...I mean yes I had other things going on-but to tell the truth, I just don't think about drinking or holidays the way I used to..my brain now naturally defaults to so many other things. I am really grateful for that. Thanks again for letting me rant. But I got it out, didn't bindge, and am getting great feedback. Doesn't get any better

Have a nice, safe weekend everyone-