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so he's IN outpatient rehab for pot smoking........but still smoking pot. hmmm. that sounds like somebody who really doesn't WANT to quit, nor is putting 100% effort into quitting.......that sounds like somebody who wants what they want and expects everyone else to do all the footwork into assuring their lives don't have to change. he expects you to give him ONE more chance, that YOU owe it to the kids, blah blah, but yet he is still doing what he's doing and putting forth zilch in the effort department to craft any type of meaningful change....you've had to ride roughshod over him and his various addictions for years, mind the farm, control the finances, basically give him the same latitude as you would your 6 year old.........
he's yet to MAN UP. and you're tired of raising adults. they suggest we look at our addicts like we are watching TV with the sound off.....what do you SEE? what does the ACTION on the screen tell you?
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