[Tazman53]

Carolingirl, the absolute best thing you can do for him right now is to start your own recovery!!!! Go to alanon, this is a group of people who are dealing with or living with alcoholics, both recoverying and still active.

These folks have been where you are at now, they can prepare you for when he comes home, what you can expect and not expect, and most importantly how to take care of your self.

Remember the only one who can keep him sober is him!!!! You need to recover your self, go to alanon.