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Originally Posted by Callie  It's just so hard to let him go because he doesn't have anyone strong in his life to fall back on. I really worry about him alone out there in this world with NOBODY to answer to. |
It has taken me so long to understand that sometimes the addicted person HAS TO REACH rock bottom to get to a place where they are ready to start recovery. I have felt the same way about my AH and still struggle with enabling him. It is a very hard habit to break, especially when you are already so codependent.
Hope you choose to try al-anon; I know you feel ashamed but there are NO judgments there. It has literally saved my sanity. Hang in there.