| Feel free to ignore me because I'm still using and having relationship problems of my own but...
...you're right - you can't be alone all your life. I think the second part of recovery is learning how to be part of society again.
Being around my girlfriend makes me use more but I know that's not her fault. She doesn't force me to take cocaine or anything else.
It's up to me to make the decision to stop and it's the same for you.
However, you might want to consider cooling it off with this chap if it wouldn't make the situation worse.
I've definately considered doing that with my girlfriend but we're in a pretty co-dependant relationship and she threatened suicide last time a 'break' was brought up.
I wish you luck with things.
By the way, I grew up near Hampshire - nice place. |