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dear(((i4getsm))))

You need to remain calm in dealing with him. Do not let him bait you into an argument at all cost. Addiction loves to create drama so you don't want to satisfy his addiction.

You might ask him if he is going to tell his parents because they could call and want to see the kids. Heck the kids could innocently drop the bomb too ya know.

Do what you have to do to protect yourself. I don't think it would be a good idea to tell him you are going to a lawyer before you go. You need legal advise and he might try to stop you from going if he knows about it. I am pretty sure you need to close any joint accounts and take your name off of any credit cards that he is using but, again I don't think it would be wise to discuss it with him.

Take care of yourself!!