| He's coming back tomorrow. What do I say?
I asked AH to leave last Friday because of his relapse into alcohol and the discovery of some phone calls to local singles hotlines. He had a business trip to go on all of this week and is returning tomorrow. I need to figure out what to say to him. I KNOW he's been drinking on this trip. I found charges for over $100 on our credit card to a club/bar. And, when I searched the bar name, it said they have a $2 drink night the night they went (you can do the math). And, I really have no idea what else he might have done. He could be shacking up with other women for all I know. He only called Wednesday night and then texted me today. (Guess I should expect that he doesn't really care about me or the kids.) I'm really pissed off at him, but I know that arguing with him will do nothing. I've got an appt with a divorce lawyer on Thursday. So...do I just allow him to come over and see the kids, then pack up his stuff and leave? He has made no mention at all of being sorry or wanting to work things out. His text said he wanted to see the kids tomorrow and get his stuff.
Just keep my mouth shut right? I do need to ask him if he's told his parents. I don't want to be the one to drop that bomb on them (it's not my place), but I need to call them so they can see the boys. (I'm definitely maintaining that relationship with them because a) I love them and b) my boys love them.)
Help me not to do anything or say anything stupid tomorrow. Shannon
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