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The 12 steps has helped me not only deal with my alcoholism problem, but it has also helped me with life and everything that life throws at me.
I'm not sure I totally understand the problem here though. Here's what I understand so far:
1. You just started going to Al-Anon. Do you plan to continue?
2. Your father is/was an alcoholic. Al-Anon and your friend are helping you with this.
3. You have a good friend who is a recovering alcoholic.
4. You may have romantic feelings for this friend.
The above all sounds like mostly good news to me.
As far as advice, I don't really have any. I've never been in your situation before. All that comes to mind is, if it is meant to happen, it will happen. You can't make it happen. You are not in control.
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