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Sorry for bumping this 3 yr old thread, I just found this in google.
I have the same exact problem, I just recently found out that my sister is a sociopath. I've been doing a lot of research about it in the internet these past few days. If you get to know her at first, you'll find that she's sweet, charming, and friendly. But when you turned your back at her she begins telling lies that would change how other people will look at you.
She has done it with our neighbors before we were living in an apartment. Because she looks like someone you can trust some people think that they can tell things that they wouldn't expect her to use it against themselves. Until my neighbors got together and talked to each other why they've been hearing bad things from each other. Until everything points to my sister, then they found out that she's the one spreading bad rumors. Until one day they all came to our apartment and they're looking for her. She didn't admit what she had done. She just cried.
Same thing happened to my Aunt. They almost got divorced because of those lies that she's been telling to the relatives of my Aunt's husband. My aunt's family got angry at her and told my mom about it. My sister told my mother she wouldn't do anything like that and just cried to her. My mother believed her and hated my aunt.
We got another sister who is married. Somehow she got the husband to sleep with her. Ofcourse when my sister found out about that she completely divorced her husband.
She does thing that will put her in to the advantage. She's good with it. The lies she's been doing is ruining lives. And she's making my relationship with my mother a living hell. My mother doesn't believe me anymore because she has almost completely turned my mother against me.
The problem is I love my mother, and she doesn't believe me. My sister is like manipulating my mother to do things to her advantage. She has completely clouded my mother's mind.
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