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altho understandable, you are putting A LOT of effort into checking up on him constantly, and i wonder if you feel that's working FOR you or AGAINST you? he's doing his thing and seems from what you have described as pretty content with it all.....AS IS.
but you are not.....content, AS IS. ya know when trust is either broken or non existent, one could find something on Gandhi......you're still in a state of high alert......and it might be time to look inward and contemplate that.....he has made some changes, but not "enough" for you to be able to relax....this might be as good as he's got to offer.......and that might not be "enough" for you.....
it's possible you each just want different things, different lifestyles, and you might each better find those things without the distraction of the other...........?
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