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It ends when he WANTS it to end and puts in the work to make himself better
going to meeting isnt enough the addict has to have the desire to stay clean....period
You can search all you want and you can call each and every dealer out there but if he wants to use........he will find a way like it or not
the only thing you can conrol is you.
what good does it do for you to look thru the phone bill? you saw the numbers there, you've seen the pot..................so whats different?
Will he not use the pill dealer cuz you saw the number or not smoke the pot..........?
unless YOU are going to make some kind of change for YOU when you see this information...............really all your doing is making yourself upset and giving him a reason to blame you and go use......( not that he needs one because when theres no real reason they can/will and often do just make up reasons to be angry with you to justify their using)
not searching, snooping and checking records is all a part of the letiing go everyone here talks so much about...............its difficult to do but what helps me now............is asking myself what will I do if I find the proof? and unless theres a solution a change I know I'm willing to make I decide not to keep looking for the clues............
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