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Is it possible for one to know when they are deulsional? - For that, I pretty much have to rely on being accountable to others and give them the OK to call me on my sh!t. There is a level of trust that comes before that arrangement.

Self Pity - If I am open and curious as to how I can be helpful to someone else, it doesn't really come up. When it does come up (because it does)- I see it for what it is, I ask God to remove it so I can be available to be helpful, and I talk about it with someone else.