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Cathy31 · 04-17-2008, 10:13 AM

Confused I hope you can get to an al-anon meeting or some help - the amount of bitterness and hatred you carry is not good for anyone - least of all yourself. Not judging just saying it's not healthy.

I think you are onto something re divorce - it does not sound like you would be any good to him - even if he did recover as you are not willing to forgive, give him a chance etc etc you would probably LESSEN his chances of recovery! Equally he does not seem to be bringing YOU any joy so it's equally unrewarding - I would bale if I were you - for your sake and his!

Good luck!
Cathy31
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04-17-2008, 10:13 AM	#33 (permalink)
Cathy31 1 bite&all resistance crumbles Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: IRELAND Posts: 1,760	Confused I hope you can get to an al-anon meeting or some help - the amount of bitterness and hatred you carry is not good for anyone - least of all yourself. Not judging just saying it's not healthy. I think you are onto something re divorce - it does not sound like you would be any good to him - even if he did recover as you are not willing to forgive, give him a chance etc etc you would probably LESSEN his chances of recovery! Equally he does not seem to be bringing YOU any joy so it's equally unrewarding - I would bale if I were you - for your sake and his! Good luck! Cathy31 x
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