[Sheryl85]

My heart goes out to you both...

I understand what you are going through after experiencing similar circumstances this past year with my mother's illness and subsequent death. I, too, know how we should stay in the moment, let go when the time draws near, and how difficult that really is to put into practice. My only suggestion is to "own" your grief and try not to stuff it.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time...