(((Hippy)))
You're *not* weird! So, stop that right now, got it!
You're questioning, and probably a bit scared too, right? Worried about a life time of this, no?
Well, you asked how can you tell your doc the truth that you just told us. I have an idea. Print out the post, and give it to them, or mail it to them in advance of seeing them. And have a list of questions ready to ask, printed out on a paper, so you won't forget. Don't trust your memory; if it's anything like mine, you'll forget everything cuz you'll be nervous.
But, your doc is there to help. And, you *should* be in a partnership with your doc. If you're not; if the doc won't give you support for your questions and your thoughts on this, perhaps it's time to find a better doc. It's *your* health.
Now, you're husband is another matter!
Shalom!