Hi Merlot
I didn't quite get what exactly the problem was...handing you the wrong stuff!!! Off with her head!

Just kidding! It's a blessing and a privilege to have a sponsor. They're not perfect. What iss the problem? Saying that you're not going to the retreat...well ok then...are you expecting push back?? I think just speak your trush and it will probably be fine...it's just really not clear what if at all any the problem is...?
Cathy31
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