Thanks to all of you!
I have gotten some responses from her. She has obviously not grasped the point, at all. That saddens me so much.
This is her response to me:
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Well honestly God is frist, then your family, but I don't know what you meant by "see about my family first." God doesn't want you to have negative people in your life but if somehow I could help dad then he wouldn't be how he is anymore..If no one helps him then it's someone's fault just as much as his that they didn't help him AT ALL.. It's the phrase "their blood on your hands" b/c I do know that what he's doing is wrong and soooo I feel that I do need to help him..So basically I do not want my father's blood on my hands come judgment day..i would have no excuse for why i could not help him..im telling you this b/c God put it on my heart to tell you and that you should know how I feel..
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And mine back...:
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God told me to see about my family first. We could go back and forth about this Victoria. I know I am not Christian, just spiritual because I choose to be this way. You live you way you want and I will the way I want. Dad isn't your responsibility, you are responsible for yourself. I HAVE read this.
I just can't believe you are telling me any of this. I thought you respected my decision as I respect yours. I will not be told my relationship with God isn't the "right" one.
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I am just..tired guys. Really tired. I feel I have to defend every little thing. For another thread, I will tell you have to have to be on the defense for my children around my aunt and how she is in the brink of not being around us at all with her racial slurs and remarks.