[Juls]

((((((((Butterfly))))))))

I don't know that I want to grow up completely. I like having an inner child. It allows me to play and have fun and not be so serious.

Lilya, after awhile it will not be all hard work, it will become second nature to learn to love yourself and your inner child. Your inner child is part of what makes you special and brings creativity to the things you do. She makes you fun to be around, especially for your niece I know. The empty hole does become filled by giving to ourselves as well as others. You don't notice it all at once, but one day you realize you don't feel empty anymore.

We don't need to be totally complete to give to others. We give what we have, and that makes it special. If we were to have everything, and it cost us nothing to give to others then what would make it special. I truly believe that by sharing the things we value the most, (and I don't mean material things necessarily, although there is a time and a place for that too), and without expecting something in return, than what we give to others has more value and meaning for us.

Juls