I had a boss, years and years ago, who only talked to his employees when we had done something wrong, or were in trouble. To this day, I still get anxious if my boss says he wants to talk to me...instantly wondering "what have I done wrong?" I know this doesn't help, but at least you know you're not alone in your thinking!
Glad your partner is okay, like Indigo said, that's the most important thing.
Hugs and prayers!
"I'm not where I want to be, but thank God I'm not where I used to be" - Joyce Meyer
"You got what it takes you can win, today is your day to begin. - Shania Twain
(Tinker, Elvis [RIP], Patches and Mots - Mouth Of The South)