[TiredMama]

..because I thought I was the one with the mood disorder, not you. You claim you want to understand "me" and my "disorder" but yet you want to throw guilt trips on me.

Here's the story. My father was abusive in all ways to me growing up. He drugged me, beat me, talked to me like trash, etc. He continued abuse through the years in different ways such as ignoring my existence and my younger sister's and trying to make us "feel guilty" because of what he did over the years. (My sister never caught the bad parts, I always did).

Well, maybe a couple of years ago I cut him out of my life for good. I had a baby and he didn't even acknowledge her. He only cares about him, cocaine, and alcohol. For my well-being, I wanted him out of my life forever, his parents included. His parents told me I was no longer a part of their family anyways, because I married a man from Mexico and had a "******* spic" baby (we weren't married when my first child was conceived by the way) Sorry for the blunt comment. My father went along with them.

Here comes my mother, a couple of days ago to my house telling me "Your dad has been telling me to tell you and your sister to call him, that he would like to talk to you both." My mom and dad live in the same town and he saw her a couple of times to tell her this info. Well, of course my sister and I are like "h$ll no." There was a reason we cut him out of our lives and that's that. My mother PROCEEDS to tell me, "Sometimes, you just need to do that right thing." She had that smart @ss tone too with this comment.

Made me so angry and I am still angry.

ETA: Oh yea, not too long ago she was telling us we are adults and we can make our own decisions, so someone tell me how this goes along "doing the right thing"

Ugh.