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Originally Posted by LucyA  I pm someone yesterday, it was to apologise really in case I'd upset this person in some way as that wasn't what I intended to do, I think one of my posts might have been taken the wrong way. I also offered to share something to illustrate where I was coming from with my post, and congratulated this person on their sobriety. I would hate to think I'd offended someone just by sharing my experiences. Maybe some people just want the 'pat on the back' and 'well done you' type of replies to their posts, well, that's fair enough I suppose, we're all different. Maybe we should have a 'congratulate me but please don't post anything that doesn't massage my ego' forum. (maybe not, there aren't enough people here who would use it)
I know this might be a coincidence and there might not be any connection to the pm I sent, but it kinda makes me feel I should just not bother reaching out anymore. On the other hand, I've taken advice from others and I'd like to give something back if I can.
Maybe I'm just having a bad day. |
That's what the thanks button is all about!!
I need to have someone call me on my b.s on occasion. Everyone needs to be reminded of opposing views from time to time.
The only thing black and white is don't pick up that first drink!!