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Originally Posted by shutterbug  ......all which could have been avoided.
Jenna |
Jenna
My prayers are with you and if I may...
Such things are not avoidable. There are many If's but when a person is wanting to do such a thing, they will find a way no matter what we try to do to stop it.
What adds to the sadness will be all the people who will question and blame themselves. We don't cause it. We can't control it and we sure can't stop it...if we could, it would never happen to anyone.
I lost two friends and with both I questioned myself as well. It is a natural response when such happens. We only see the outside of a person. The inner thoughts, even if we could see them...we still couldn't stop such. At most we could do would be to help put it off for a time if we could see the inner thoughts of another but we can't ever stop it when a person is wanting to do such to themself.