[splendra]

I think it is interesting that you are attracting men who are unable to commit. Perhaps you do not really want a commitment cause somehow what you are receiving has something to do with what you are sending out.

THe first thing you may need to do is to stop doing what you are doing. Stop seeing married men don't settle for what you do not want. Take sometime out for yourself to make sure you are liking your own company. It is okay to like yourself you know...

Your own mind set will lead you to what you are looking for. Check your attitudes about yourself. I am sure you are worthy of being happy and loved but is that what you are saying to yourself?

Maybe you are blocking the kind of man you want with what you don't want cause you are afraid to be close to someone. There are plenty of single men who aren't playing games. Take responsibility for the message you are sending out change what needs to be changed.