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Originally Posted by jen960  Until he is ready to take responsibility for himself there is nothing I can do but keep moving on. |
You're smart to realize this, Jen. You have to keep reminding yourself of this. And I agree with Greet. We codie's do this crazy thing of longing for what "might have been". But jen, you have to get into reality. As my sponsor says, "It is what it is."
So if he were to come to wherever you are today, would anything be different if he hasn't even attempted recovery? Of course not. You'd just be getting what you got before. And you didn't want that, right?
I'm with what someone else said. Limit contact with him. As long as you are talking to him, he's keeping you sucked into his life and his addiction.
Keep moving forward, even if it's baby steps. But keep moving forward. Going back will only get you what you had.
Hugs,
Hangin' In