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hbb · 02-27-2008, 01:46 PM

Hi and welcome. Sorry your hurting, it is hard to go through.

My exabf and i broke up in July and i've had no contact since the day he walked out. At the time i was hopeful because i wasn't the one that wanted it to end. But i looked at no contact for ME because that's the ONLY way i was going to be able to move on and keep going forward. Having no contact wasn't to gain anything from him in the longrun, it was for my own sanity. You can ask Anvil in particular how bumpy it has been for me but no contact has saved my life for ME and only me. It ended and that was it......

02-27-2008, 01:46 PM	#9 (permalink)
hbb Live, Laugh, Love Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Between Fenway and the Beach! Posts: 1,289	Hi and welcome. Sorry your hurting, it is hard to go through. My exabf and i broke up in July and i've had no contact since the day he walked out. At the time i was hopeful because i wasn't the one that wanted it to end. But i looked at no contact for ME because that's the ONLY way i was going to be able to move on and keep going forward. Having no contact wasn't to gain anything from him in the longrun, it was for my own sanity. You can ask Anvil in particular how bumpy it has been for me but no contact has saved my life for ME and only me. It ended and that was it...... __________________ Heather "Happiness often sneaks through a door we didn't know we left open"