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Thank you so much. I'm sorry I hadn't noticed that there was a friends and family section here, thank you for pointing that out to me.
Yes the aggression worrries me, I guess you could say that this is a domestic violence issue aswell as an alcohol related problem.
The story of the man you know who killed his own mother is horrific, it helps to open my eyes to that possibility. Whilst he hasn't been violent with me - his rages scare me and I fully understand that this is wrong and I should not have to live with that.
I just I don't know, I am at the point now that I want to sell our house and leave. I know I can have a happier life, but the carer in me just worries too much. I'm close with his family, I would hate to look back in a few years and realise he has thrown his entire life away.
I guess me caring may actually be enabling. I just needed to ramble on. I'll try and resume this in the correct part of the forum, though tomorrow as I am far too sleepy now. Your post was very helpful and I thank you for the time to reply. I will also look into ALANON, thank you again.
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