[Tazman53]

I am with Barb on how to deal with the men who talk out of their arse instead of their mouth, call them on it!!!

We are men and as a result we tend to many times speak before we think!

Calling us on our BS actions is not only good for you, but good for us.

My first wife would get so mad at me she would not talk to me for days at a time, sometimes I deserved that, sometimes I enjoyed that!!!!

What was frustrating for me was I was never able to correct what I was doing wrong because she would never tell me what made her mad.