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Hi & Welcome to Sr~ As a person who has struggled with bipolar disorder and as a step parent to a now 34 year old son with this disorder I understand all to well how hard it is. At least your son is taken his meds. as directed that is half the battle. As others have already said the perfect fit takes time. I could fill a sheet of paper with what I have been on since I have been diagnosed. As far as the games go I think some boundaries are only fair for everyone's sake. I would call a family meeting and maybe make a list of weekly things that need to get done , After that they could be divided equally. He needs to contribute and feel helpful. Many areas have support groups or mental health associations. Some have centers that are open certain days of the week and members can drop in for coffee and visit in a casual nonjudgmental environment. Even taking a walk with him to get him out is a big help. Holing up in the house is always bad for me and leads to more depression. Keep posting and take care of yourself too...