Bob;
Welcome to SR!
While there is no cure for aspergers syndrome, there are treatments for some of the conditions associated with it. There are communication and social skills training to help you in situations. Cognitive behavior therapy can help you learn strategies too. Also, certain medications can help you deal with particular behaviors.
Asperger's syndrome: Treatment - MayoClinic.com
Here's a link to a site that may interest you.
Asperger\'s Syndrome in Adults
Please continue to let us know how it's going.
And keep up the good work, going to meetings. The drinking won't get you friends.
Shalom!