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Old 02-02-2008, 10:23 PM   #2 (permalink)
SerenitySeaker
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Hampton Roads, VA
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"On the practical side of things, we are going to be opening discussions on the "practical" side of the end of our marriage next week - after I go over the numbers I have gotten together with my atty. He still believes, and wants me to believe, he can buy me out (if he has a secret stash - I can't wait to see it!). He also thinks he's buying a new truck - maybe he is. With what? Secret Stash? I have no idea what he thinks he's doing. He's either got a lot of money hidden somewhere - and that just goes to show he was not a partner or a husband - or he is completely delusional. Either way I'm ready. If he can't pay me, I can pay him."

I feel for you, I am in the same situation. Tough my husband doesn't appear to be in active addiction he is just using different things to get high and push people away. As always he has grand plans, he has a job offer on the west coast, he has someone lined up to buy our house, he has a real estate agent who will work on the side,,,blah blah blah. I'll believe it when I see it but in the meantime I will no longer be living with an emotionally abusive man. Good luck with everything.

You're in my prayers.
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