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Enabling or not, I don't know. I know I was taking care of the whole family -- because he couldn't (wouldn't?) do anything. It was hard to find a line where it was only him that I could detach from and still live in the same house. I don't think I really thought it through clearly while I was living it; i just knew something was wrong. Certain things have to happen in a household -- and I was doing the lion's share -- and yes it was making it comfortable for him, so why should he change? Good question -- I'd like to hear what other think!
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